y’all are so weird about people’s headcanons can’t you just let people think of characters however they want as long as it’s not erasing a canon oppressed identity good lord
even if you HATE someone’s headcanon what the fuck do you think you’re gonna accomplish by telling them that? even if the scenes they take as validation of that headcanon have multiple ways to read them what joy do you get out of saying they’re wrong?
unless it’s trying to draw a harmful parallel between a marginalized group and a stereotype about them. then fuck off